0039Ā Ā |Ā Ā September 30, 2018
Triangulating #MeToo: Morality, Ideology, and Desire
C. Travis Webb, Seph Rodney, and Steven Fullwood discuss the #MeToo movement and the way in which mainstream American culture over-simplifies sexual desire. Woody Allen, The Son’s of Anarchy, and Brett Kavanaugh are dissected and analyzed.

C.T. WEBBĀ 00:19Ā | [music] Good afternoon, good morning, and good evening, and welcome to the American Age Podcast. My name is C. Travis Webb. I have a PhD inĀ Comparative Literature from Claremont Graduate University, and I enjoy speaking toĀ SephĀ Rodney and StevenĀ FullwoodĀ on this weekly podcast. Gentlemen, how’re you guys doing?Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 00:34Ā | We’re all pretty good. Pretty good.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 00:34Ā | Pretty good. Pretty good.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 00:35Ā | Go ahead, Steven.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 00:36Ā | Sure. My name is Steven G.Ā Fullwood, and I am the co-founder of the Nomadic Archivists Project which is a consulting company that works with individuals and organizations to find a home for their archives, process theirĀ archives, or just realize that they have archives in their home [laughter].Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 00:55Ā | I like that.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 00:56Ā | My name isĀ SephĀ Rodney. I am an editor at Hyperallergic. An online magazine that primarily deals with visual art. So that we do cover quite a bitĀ of performance and staged events and we talk about art issues. And that’s actually what I really like to do.Ā SoĀ I’m glad to be here.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 01:19Ā | One of the premiere art magazines in the world,Ā SephĀ should have said actually–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 01:22Ā | Well, yeah [crosstalk].Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 01:22Ā | –but it’s [laughter]. So anyway. So today–Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 01:26Ā | He forgot that part.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 01:29Ā | –we’re continuing our conversation’s part two of kind of the #MeTooĀ movement which was inspired by Dr. Ford’s objectionsĀ to, orĀ reporting of sexual assault by current Supreme Court nominee, Brett Kavanaugh. And that opened, Steven had suggested that kind of, we use that as a springboard for talking of a variety of #MeTooĀ issues, carefully, right, because there were three dudes, and so you justĀ sort of haveĀ toĀ be cautious about some of the things that we presume. Last week, I think, to dovetail it, I mean, it’s hard for me not to immediately want to talk about Dr. Ford’s testimony. But I’d like to try and stick with what we had said last week, and maybe we can kind of turn back into that a little bit later on, which was Soon-Yi Previn’s article in which sheĀ sortĀ of discussed her point of view on the Woody Allen affair, and Mia Farrow, and the allegations against Woody Allen.Ā SoĀ Steven orĀ Seph, do you guys want toĀ take us in?Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 02:38Ā | Sure. Do you mind,Ā Seph? I just don’t want to–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 02:41Ā | No, please do.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 02:42Ā | SoĀ the reason why I suggested this particular article was because I thought it was a very interesting article. It was the first time that Soon-YiĀ Previn spoke at length about the allegations against her husband, Woody Allen, and Mia Farrow, for the first time. AndĀ soĀ seeing her embodied and thinking about what this actually means, to go on record as the wife of someone who’s been accused by his daughter of sexually molesting her, I thought was very interesting to bring up in light of theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement because it sort of predates theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement, and now it’s firmly within it. So now it’sĀ kind of like, “Okay.Ā SoĀ we’ll take this on directly.” There’s no real reason other than she just simply wanted to go on record about who she was, but also a little bit about who she is, and how she feels about these allegations. AndĀ soĀ in light of Dr. Ford’s Testimony that’s going on right now, I thought I wanted to talk about it last week, we didn’t get a chance to. ButĀ soĀ I wanted to know, both Travis andĀ Seph, did you guys read the article, what did you think about it? And I have some other questions for you as well.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 03:51Ā | Seph, do you want to go?Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 03:53Ā | To be honest with you, I read part of the article only. I neglected to read the entire thing because I’m a bit of a bonehead sometimes [laughter].Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 04:03Ā | There’s other stuff to read as well. There’s a long list.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 04:05Ā | Well, yeah. There was. What IĀ did find really intriguing was that I have known this story from years back, mostly via mainstream press that covered it as if Woody Allen was aĀ kind of sick, predatory individual. And I hadn’t really thought much about it. To be honest, what had happenedĀ was, reading those accounts, I hadĀ kind of frozenĀ Soon-Yi Previn in my mind as this child.Ā SoĀ what I’ve read of her own account, I realized that she’s a grown ass woman. She’s 47 years old and she’s very clear on how the– what began as an affair with Woody Allen made her feel and very clear on how that was actually quite a separate set of circumstances for her from her family life. And her relationship with her own mother, Mia Farrow, Woody Allen’s ex-wife.Ā SoĀ what I got was a sense of Soon-Yi Previn is her own person. And if I am to give her any credit as I do other adult human beings, I have to say to myself that you’re experienced. You did not have a good relationship with your mother. You fell in love with this man named Woody Allen, who other people might see as a predator, but you certainly do not. And I have to value your own experience, given how you articulated it as a person who has full knowledge of yourself and agency.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 06:05Ā | I feel like this, I think the Soon-Yi Previn, the article I did read, and am fairly familiar, I think I mentioned this last week. I’m fairly familiar with the Allen accusations and kind of some of the details around it. As familiar as I can be just reading news accounts. I think ideology makes us heavy-footed. And I thinkĀ it means we can hit really hard, and we can club with very powerful tools, but it takes away our agility. And I think, forĀ example, it is not as if every younger woman in relation to every older man, that the older man has the power.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 06:49Ā | Precisely.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 06:49Ā | What I got from reading that article is that she was kind of fucking around, and that she was getting back at a stepmother she did not like. At the beginning of the article, she says to him, “Well, that took you a long time,” or some kind offhandĀ remark that she made to him. And that she knew the relationship she was getting into.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 07:14Ā | No, she did.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 07:15Ā | Allen, to me, in that telling, in sort of a reading between the lines kind of way you might do in aĀ sort of literaryĀ analysis. But AllenĀ to me in that exchange comes off as kind of theĀ sort of awkward, slightly [crosstalk] fist–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 07:29Ā | Schmuck [laughter].Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 07:30Ā | Yeah. And I understand that that can be read as a kind of cover, and that gives him an ability to sort–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 07:37Ā | Or a complexity.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 07:38Ā | Yeah, yeah, yeah. For sure. But I think, sometimes, even though menĀ appear to haveĀ social power, sometimes even though women appear to have social power, in intimate relationships, you may be a totalĀ schlub. You may a complete and utterĀ submissive. But when we use an ideological frame to interpret every human action, it makes us idiots. You cannot accurately read the world through a rigid ideological– that’s a mixed metaphor, but through a rigid ideological frame. Right? You end up distorting the world into that frame. AndĀ soĀ reading Previn’s article was not at all surprising to me. To me, it seems patently obvious that, though Allen probably has some odd emotional relationships, I mean, I think that comes through clearly in his films, the fact that he was a predator given the timeline, we talked about this a little bit after the show, August 1st, Mia Farrow says that something must be done to stop the devil that is Woody Allen, and August 4th, she’s making very calm and collected accusations that he has molested her daughter. I don’t buy it. It’s just not credible to me.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 09:07Ā | Yeah, but Travis, you also said something when we were off the air last time, that I thought was really crucial to that part of the story. Which is that there was anĀ investigationĀ and someone spent a week with Woody Allen talking to him.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 09:24Ā | SoĀ there was an extensive criminal investigation. Criminal investigation. I don’t want to speak for Steven, but Steven, I know you were– so Steven wondered if Allen’sĀ celebrity might have benefited him. AndĀ of courseĀ you have to concede that that might be true, but it might also be true that his celebrity hurt him. Right? There are just as many–Ā maybe notĀ just as many, there are a fair share of people that want to pullĀ celebrities down as want to build celebrities up, so. But I don’t want to speak for Steven, but.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 09:54Ā | Okay.Ā SoĀ I’m just going to circle back to something thatĀ SephĀ said.Ā SoĀ they were never married, they we only partnered, from 1980 to 1992. I also want to say something that Travis has mentioned. I Agree with you that I think that Soon-Yi is a much more complex person than we give her credit for, I was about to say character. I think, when I read the piece, the thing that stuck in my craw was the photographs that Woody had taken of Soon-Yi, and that Mia found them. And I believe that Soon-Yi wasĀ sort of like, “Well.” Kind of [laughter] like, “Right.”Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 10:33Ā | I wish you guys could see Steven’s miming just then, but.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 10:38Ā | SoĀ it’s an interesting wayĀ to kind of– well, I think that what I got from the article was that there’s so much more to this story. I agree with you that it’s hard– reading things through an ideological lens can distort it. Right? Absolutely, but I’m beginning to wonder whether orĀ not, is that even possible outside of a classroom.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 11:00Ā | Oh, interesting.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 11:02Ā | I mean, I know lots of people that would push back very forcefully against this, and thinkers I respect. But I think, absolutely. I think that it just requires constant calibration. Right?Ā SoĀ any instrument that you use to measure the world requires calibration because it begins to getĀ influenced by its inputs.Ā SoĀ its calibrations begin– because say like in a seismograph, there might be a random set of activity that starts to knock the calibration of the instrument off because the information that is receiving is skewed on one side. Right?Ā SoĀ because of its narrow bandwidth on time.Ā SoĀ you have to re-calibrate the instrument. Human ideologies, I would say, areĀ roughlyĀ analogousĀ to that. You have to constantly– so basically, my ideology tells me that the United States, as an ideological apparatus could not have been invented without slavery. Right?Ā SoĀ you absolutely require– it required black bodies to invent itself.Ā AndĀ soĀ I bring that to everything that I sort of judge in contemporary politics and culture. But I do think that has to be constantly re-calibrated by basic human decency, human curiosity, human avarice. AndĀ soĀ I think it is possible, Steven, for narrow moments in time, that you have to go back, and you have to struggle again, over, and over, and over again. So yeah, that’s my–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 12:43Ā | Well, I would tend to agree withĀ that generally. I wonder how that looks in practice. I think one of the places whereĀ that that sort of ideological testing is possible is the classroom as Steven suggested. Is that what happens in the classroom is we have a civil meeting place for a difference of opinion.Ā SoĀ I think the opinions being different, getting to rub up against each other, getting to generate friction is what makes that kind of re-calibration possible. I think that’s how it happens.Ā SoĀ I wonder though, to talk about my own ideological position, vis-a-vis women, theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement, I’m reminded of something that IĀ saw, and I don’t know if you guys have seen this. And this is an interesting segue, The Handmaid’s Tale.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 13:43Ā | Sure.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 13:44Ā | Okay. Right.Ā SoĀ there’s a scene- Steven, you’ve seen this.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 13:49Ā | No. I have not [laughter].Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 13:51Ā | Okay. Well, I’m not going to spoil anything for you [crosstalk].Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 13:54Ā | Oh, no. You don’t have to. I can think about it myself.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 13:55Ā | I think we have to mark this date on the on the calendar that there is a piece of media that Steven has not consumed, becauseĀ [laughter]–Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 14:02Ā | Oh, you should get to know me.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 14:02Ā | –every time we bring something up, seems like, “I saw that.”Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 14:06Ā | No, no, no.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 14:06Ā | “I saw that back in 1989. Where were you?”Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 14:10Ā | These two guys are giving me way too muchĀ credit. There’s so much I refuse to watch until the herd has passed, and then I go, “Okay. Okay. Maybe I can watch it now.” So, no, no, no. Trust me, I’m an old man, 52.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 14:23Ā | SoĀ watching Handmaid’s Tale was harrowing for me. And I didĀ kind of watchĀ itĀ when most of the herd had passed.Ā SoĀ it was only a couple of months ago. And there was a scene where– essentially, there’s been a coup in the United States, and the new administration is plotting how to lay out the social and political foundations for this new society which theyĀ call Gilead. And one of the top lieutenants, he ends up being a commander has a girlfriend or wife, I think wife at that point, who is really instrumental in fomenting this revolution and she wants in on the discussions on how thisĀ new society is going to be structured. And he says, “Yeah. Well, the men will talk, and then we’ll let you in at some point, and you can say your peace and help.” And one of the top– and he comes back out of the room. She’s in the hallway waiting for him. He comes back out of the room and he says, “I’m sorry, Selina. Not this time. It’s just not the right time. We’re not going to let you speak.” And she’s disappointed, but sheĀ beingĀ the dutiful, submissive wife, she slinks off. My ideological position isĀ that I couldn’t live in that world because I fundamentally believe that there is no justification for that kind of society. There is no justification for putting women in a position where theyĀ essentially areĀ the sort of attaches to men. Right? Where theyĀ are relegated, conscripted to roles of domestic– what’s the word? Domestic administration, child rearing, basically, the sort ofĀ Judeo ChristianĀ bible.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 16:38Ā | Yeah. The belong in the domestic sphere. They don’t belong in the professional sphere.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 16:41Ā | Or anywhere besides that. Ideologically, I don’t believe that is even close to being okay. There’s no way, shape or form that I’m okay with that.Ā SoĀ when I come to theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement, I come with that. How do I test that idea? You know what I’m saying? I watch The Handmaid’s Tale, I don’t find myself trying to re-calibrate, I just think this is horrendous.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 17:12Ā | Steven, do you have– I have a quick response to that to clarify.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 17:16Ā | Go ahead.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 17:18Ā | SoĀ what I mean by testing the fidelity ofĀ our instrument, I mean that using that position, which I of course fundamentally agree with in every way, against the information that you’re receiving from the world, whether it be news media, first and secondhand accounts. In that I don’t think it’s productive to immediately interpret or to reflexively interpret each apparent instance of patriarchy or each apparent instance of masculine domination as reconfirming that fundamental ideology. It may be that there are extenuating circumstances– not just extenuating, it may be that the story is far more complicated than that. And I can some ways, I feel like the best parts of kind of, what are sometimes called the reactionary intellectual right. Right? Like Jordan Peterson, and Ben Shapiro and David Reuben, these guys.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 18:26Ā | And Kevin Williamson.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 18:27Ā | Kevin Williamson, right. The best part, kind of the little filet mignon on the side [laughter] of that cut of steak, I think is trying to say that. Right? What they’re trying to say is that the ideologiesĀ that we are bringing to these events and these cultural circumstances, it’s more complicated. The picture is messier than that. Now, there’s a whole bunch of mess associated with it too. There’s a whole bunch of bullshit that I don’t traffic with. I don’tĀ want to give fair airtime to white supremacists, or. No. I don’t think I need to waste any of my very limited life entertaining those ridiculousĀ ideas. But I do feel like there’s a kernel of what they’re chasing that I’m sympathetic to. So that’s sort of myĀ response to that,Ā Seph.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 19:20Ā | But that makes–Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 19:20Ā | I’m sorry. Go ahead.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 19:22Ā | No, I interrupted you. But that makes perfect sense to me because that means that– I can totally see how that ideological position that I just articulated couldĀ be used to interpret the whole Woody house and Soon-Yi Previn episode as Hollywood filmmaker takes advantage of young immigrant woman. Right? Which we’ve been saying that’s not it. That is not what has happened.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 19:51Ā | That’s not what we believe now, has not happened. Yes.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 19:57Ā | Right. Okay. Right. Right. Well, our knowledge of the situation has been expanded. Right? It has been inflected by Soon-Yi’s own account.Ā SoĀ if we’re going to take that seriously, then yeah, we can’t just look at this story with that lens.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 20:16Ā | It’s also, so there are two things. One of the reasons why I brought the ideological component up, to riff on what Travis said, was I was at the barber the other day, and I’m sitting, waiting for my barber to finish someone beforeĀ me, and I had the back to the television that’s on the wall, and I’m hearing, “No, you don’t want this.” And then he’s like, “Yes, you do. Yes, you do.” And then I hear the ripping of the bodice. I’m like, “Bodice [laughter]?” And then I go sit down in theĀ chair, and I look up and I ask my barber. I say, “Is this a soap opera?” Because high definition makes everything look sort of soapĀ oper-y. “No, this is TheĀ Son’sĀ of Anarchy.” But the way that it was being played was she didn’t know what she wanted–Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 21:02Ā | That’s a soap opera [laughter].Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 21:06Ā | That’s funny.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 21:05Ā | Oh, no. It’s a soap opera. Well, here’s what I thought about it. I said–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 21:08Ā | Yeah, it is kind of–Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 21:08Ā | –“Oh, this is a soap opera for men.” I said, “Okay. I get it now.Ā Whatever.” There’s Peggy Bundy, there’sĀ otherĀ guy who plays, I forget his name,Ā Hellboy. I can’t think of his name at the moment, but–Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 21:20Ā | I know who you’re talking about [crosstalk].Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 21:20Ā | –I was thinking about those, there were like 2 barbersĀ looking seriously at the– just riveted by this idea, and I was like, “What’s going through their heads? What’s going through their heads during thisāÆ#MeTooĀ movement? What’s going through their heads during Dr. Ford’s testimony, and now three other womenĀ who are now charging Kavanaugh with someĀ kind of sexualĀ abuse? What is in theirĀ heads? What’s in these men’s heads because in my head, I’m going, “I don’t know if this is entertainment.”Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 21:54Ā | SoĀ for me, I would say that the notion of suppressed and then expressed desire is baseline titillating for sophisticated apes like human beings.Ā SoĀ I think that, sort of, the idea of letting go, I don’t think that this is purely a heterosexual dynamic. And I think our inability to deal with desire, to articulate desire and discuss it honestly, is one of the reasons you get someone like Brett Kavanaugh. I bet that he believes he didn’t do the things that he’s accused of. I think that that is a plausible story. That he actually–Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 22:44Ā | Oh, I think so.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 22:45Ā | And I don’t believe for a second that it didn’t happen– I mean, I watched her testimony this morning. I would give, in the account of Allen and Soon-Yi Previn, I would give that to Allen. I absolutely give it to Dr. Ford. It seems patent– I mean, not patentlyĀ obv– I am completely convinced of her position, and I think he did do those things. And I think it is also equally possible that because we are so inept as a culture at dealing with desire, that the way he has learned to process that want, right, this strict Catholic upbringing or at least strict Catholic performance. Right? I don’t know what he actually was like behind closed doors [laughter], is what leads to this kind of non-sense.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 23:37Ā | They [inaudible] all of this with virginity and all thisĀ other stuff which I find very problematic and just–Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 23:46Ā | Dumb. Dumb.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 23:46Ā | –soĀ it feels like– of course it’s dumb, but it plays to the rafters. It plays to the crowd. This guy was a virgin. He’s a Christian. He’s this, whatever. Boys will be boys. There have been think pieces around that kind of culture. I agree with you. I don’t think that Kavanaugh or anyone like him thinks that he did anything wrong. I won’t say completely sure because I don’t, but it smells like and it feels like. AndĀ alsoĀ I’ve been a male all my life, and I understand that culture in a very intimate way. So what I was thinking was it’s like if Brett Kavanaugh doesn’t feel that he’s guilty, there are scores, and scores of men and women who believe him because there is a mechanism in place that I feel is being affirmed by the kind of culture that we take in as entertainment, which is kind of the point I was trying to make earlier. I feel like–Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 24:39Ā | I see what you’re saying. I see what you’re saying.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 24:40Ā | Do you knowĀ what I mean? AndĀ soĀ I think it’s hard to pull that apart.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 24:44Ā | And I think what plays out in that circle of entertainment is precisely the rehearsal of the titillation of suppressing and expressing desire. Right. So that’s kind of a through-line through most of the dramas that we like. I mean, I can think of, off the top of my head, theĀ Wire, Madmen, BattlestarĀ Galactica, Hill Street Blues, CSI.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 25:26Ā | Any soap opera. I mean, there’s just so much of it.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 25:28Ā | Right. Right. And not that those areĀ the only things that are working in those magnificent dramas, but that’s one of the things. It’s the, as Travis eloquently said, suppression of and expression of desire. I think that another part of theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement that is really aĀ kind of smallĀ corollary, but which I think also runs through Kavanaugh’s testimony, that story of who he is, and that performance of that Catholic upbringing, and all that. And also wends its way into theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement. And here I think of like Aziz Ansari’s story, is the effects of alcohol. Think about the ways that we voiced off so much of that repressed desire onto alcohol. We say, “Oh, remember what happened with the kid who digitally raped the woman and then– the swimmer from Stanford who was convicted,” and part of his defense was, “I was drunk. I didn’t know what I was doing.” And remember he went on this– I know his parents are wealthy, but they did something, like the donated something–Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 26:38Ā | Was his name Brock?Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 26:39Ā | Yes, that’s the one. That’s the one.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 26:40Ā | Why do they always have such fucked upĀ rapeyĀ names? Brett and Brock [laughter]. Just stop naming your children Brett and Brock, America.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 26:53Ā | What came out of that was, the parents funded some effort to teach kids about the evils of alcohol.Ā And I want to say, no. That’s ridiculous. It’s not about alcohol. It’s not about giving yourself the excuse to let go by imbibing this, which isĀ essentially whatĀ you’re doing. Right? At this stage in my life, I know how good a good scotch tastes, and I would like that experience, but I don’t drink scotch to get to the point where I’m able to turn to the person next to me and actually say what I feel.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 27:37Ā | Well,Ā maybe youĀ don’t have any suppressed hidden desires that you need to act out.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 27:41Ā | I have suppressed and [laughter] hidden desires. I don’t know if I need to act them out, but more to the point, I know that I can find places to do that which are supportive and a community of like-minded folks. And I’m self-aware enough to know that alcohol isn’t going to be something I can blame bad actions on later and get away with. And plus, let’s just be clear about this too. I am not a white man, with a certainĀ kind of educationalĀ pedigree behind me.Ā SoĀ there’s shit I will be accountable for that Brett Kavanaugh and his ilk may not.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 28:28Ā | True. True that. I mean, that’s clear. That’s just a part of the public record. But just thinking about the vector of alcohol and how all of my life, all of my conscious life, I’ve been surrounded by people who talk the way you talk. “Oh, I was drunk. I didn’t know what I was doing.” I mean from being a small child, to high school, to college, and even now, people in their 40s and 50s that I know are stillĀ kind of holdingĀ onto that line, using it as a vector, and I’m like, no. No. No.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 29:04Ā | Right. No. No motherfucker. Be an adult. Shit.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 29:09Ā | Be an adult. I heard you about to say be a man.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 29:12Ā | Be an adult [laughter].Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 29:13Ā | Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. HashtagĀ MeToo.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 29:19Ā | Man.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 29:20Ā | I know. It’sĀ hard.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 29:22Ā | I want to turn it back to Soon-Yi very, very briefly. I want to get a sense of your– you bothĀ kind of talkedĀ a little bit about what you read. But also, I was curious about something that Travis said, and I agree with him because that flexibility is something that I– intellectual flexibility, but also just holding the space. I used to call it the god space before I became not religious, but I still hold the space open to try to think about things in a particular way or try, excuse me, to invite other perspectives in. I thought about it from the perspective of Kavanaugh. I thought about it from the perspective of his wife and children. I said, “Okay. Well, there’s this–” I feel very much like Kavanaugh does believe he did not do these things, has no memory of these things, participated in a culture of drinking. Now there are more people coming forth and saying, “No, this guy drank all the time, and he became increasingly aggressive when he was drunk.” I believe he feels like that’s a birthright. ThatĀ isĀ just what people do. And rightĀ nowĀ we’re getting to a point where women have been saying this for decades and centuries now, “You don’t have a right to me.” And now we’re really reckoning with it, but not really, at the same time.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 30:37Ā | SoĀ I agree with that 100%. The only complication I would add is that I do feel like there are rhetorical lines in theāÆ#MeTooĀ movement that interfere with women takingĀ full responsibility for their own sexuality and their own desires. And there’s a way that,Ā to immediately brand a woman in a fraught sexual encounter as a powerless person that needs to be defended from kind of the aggressive affront of male desire is adolescent. Once again, we have another adolescent movement in America that really pretends atĀ thinking without actually doing the hard work involved in [crosstalk].Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 31:36Ā | Absolutely. That’s part about are we really reckoning with it.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 31:40Ā | Yeah. I agree. I think so.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 31:40Ā | That’s part of the element. And to brand everyone as a witnessĀ who never lied, as a witness who never did anything wrong is ridiculous.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 31:50Ā | Right, right. I never was that drunk.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 31:52Ā | I never walked down the street [laughter]. The fuck? The complexity that I’m yearning for is the complexity I try to live,Ā but I feel like when we’re talking about the way that the news– the consuming news. News wants to sell you something.Ā SoĀ does someone need to be telling the truth if they’ve lied before? And I love it that one of the women says, “I drink. I was drunk.” IĀ was like, “Thank you for the complication.” And we knew people would seize on it as a way to discredit her, but for me it made her even more credible. I was like, “Thank you. I need dimensions.” There are more colors than black and white here. And everybody knows that. I don’t know if we’re really reckoning with these things in any adult manner, but I don’t know if we have a nation of adults. I think we just have a nation of people who want to be rich or want to be popular or want to be the people who holdĀ these other people down so that they can do these things. I don’t know.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 32:52Ā | That’s a great, great point. And actually, that isĀ probably aĀ whole other podcast in itself whether we are really a nation of people who just want to be popular, and rich andĀ want to dominate others, and whether there’s any really rich vein of culture that is produced in America through which we can explore other avenues of being. That, I’d be really interested in talking about. SoĀ Seph, I think we’re rubbing up against our time, and I think we were introducing a new aspect to the podcast where we’re going toĀ kind of letĀ you guys know what we’re talking about the next week and we’re going to work through that at the very end. SoĀ Seph, you’re taking the seat on that one.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 33:32Ā | Great. What I want to talk about, and this is slightly difficult for me to articulate because I’m still working it out in my head, butĀ essentially, IĀ had a conversation at the house of a friend, and artist who I actually just had dinner with last night.Ā And it was a really convivial, friendly dinner. I think there wereĀ maybe eightĀ of us in the room, maybe nine. Artist and her boyfriend, and several artist curators, I’m a writer, and editor was in the room, and yeah, that’sĀ pretty much theĀ composition ofĀ the room. We were talking about lots of different things. At one point we ended up on the subject of expensive sneakers. And I live in a neighborhood in the South Bronx where lots and lots of people around me wear very expensive sneakers. And I know because I see them advertised in various places, and I walk by, there’s a big, popular shoe store I walk by on my way to the subway every day. And I said to one woman, I think she’s a curator, I said it bothers me when I see that because a lot of times I get theĀ sense that these people are sort of on the edge economically, that they don’t really have enough to set aside money for if they happen to lose their jobs or– not to even mention things like sending their own children to college, whatever. And I realize that I am making, in some cases, unfair assumptions but not unwarranted ones, but anyway, I said, “I don’t like this expensive sneaker thing. These Jordan’s and these things that cost in excess of $200, and it especially bothers me when I see them on the feet of children. LikeĀ five year oldĀ and six year old children wearing theseĀ ridiculously expensive sneakers.” Again, I don’t know how much the parent pays for them. I don’t know where they get them, but whatever. Then the woman said to me, “Well, you know where that comes from, right? It’s from our sense of pageantry. That’s what we’re doing. We’re celebrating who we are as a community.”Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 35:46Ā | And I want to talk about this because I find that argument completely ridiculous. I do not get it [laughter]. IĀ don’t give it any credit at all. I feel like there’s a kind of– what they’re demonstrating is, I think, aĀ kind of fiscalĀ irresponsibility that is rooted in the notion that your social status is commensurate, not with what you earn, but with what you buy.Ā Your [laughter] social status is indicated by what you spend money on. That’s a problem.Ā SoĀ a lot of people I think would argue me into the ground and say, “No, no, no. That’s unfair. How are you making these assumptions–? People of color–” I want to talk it out.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 36:33Ā | Oh, cool.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 36:33Ā | All right. All right. I’m down with that. The modern potlatch is what we will talk about next week [laughter].Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 36:42Ā | SoĀ what do we come up with as a tagline, Travis?Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 36:46Ā | Yeah.Ā SoĀ we were told,Ā SephĀ went toĀ a meeting of some professional producers and people involved in radio, and they said we needed a tagline for the podcast.Ā SoĀ one of the leading contenders is some version of practicing intellectual intimacy.Ā SoĀ I think we’re going to work through that in the next week or two, and we will continue to improve on our ability to practice intellectual intimacy with one another and hopefully with the listeners.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 37:13Ā | Amen.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 37:14Ā | Sounds good.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 37:14Ā | So once again, this is C. Travis Webb–Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 37:18Ā | AndĀ SephĀ Rodney–Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 37:20Ā | And Steven G.Ā Fullwood. Thank you very much for tuning in today. We’ll see you next week.Ā |
C.T. WEBBĀ 37:24Ā | Yeah.Ā |
S. RODNEYĀ 37:24Ā | Take careĀ |
C.T. WEBBĀ 37:25Ā | Take care. Bye-bye.Ā |
S. FULLWOODĀ 37:26Ā | Bye. [music]Ā |
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